Dougy Mak's Blog

I am not perfect, and I don’t think anyone is perfect either. I hold grudges! The grudges I hold are against people who screw me over in life in these three categories: academically, financially, and/or emotionally. So how do I deal with these grudges? I would normally, never talk to them again. The only people I would forgive are family and friends who are willing to go out of their way to apologize or give a sincere apology (I would be able to tell). It’s really stupid how people can apologize and then continue to dig an ever deeper hole. If they don’t say sorry, then they weren’t a good friend to begin with. However, I will eventually talk to them in the future (it can be as little as days and as much as years), depending on how severe they screwed me over.