Comments on: How two different people… http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/ MY BLOG! Wed, 07 Jul 2010 19:11:16 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: DougyMak http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1582 DougyMak Wed, 29 Apr 2009 19:12:31 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1582 @queebi Thanks for the nice comment. @Eri* It's very hard to continue a relationship if that person doesn't open his/her heart to you. The time needed to open their heart is long, and hard, but it will all be beneficial in the end. :) @queebi
Thanks for the nice comment.

@Eri*
It’s very hard to continue a relationship if that person doesn’t open his/her heart to you. The time needed to open their heart is long, and hard, but it will all be beneficial in the end. :)

]]> By: Eri* http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1567 Eri* Tue, 28 Apr 2009 03:03:04 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1567 "Accommodating people requires you to open your heart to accept the person, not only your mind. Only when you are able to open your heart will you be able to understand each other." I like this conclusion.Dougy~~ It's true~ It's very hard to accommodate and understand if that person doesnt want to open his/her heart to you,too. :cry: I think both of them need to understand each other~~~ It takes two to make a quarrel~~I guess that's how you traslate chinese...to English... hahahaha~~~ Yeh!! Dougy~~ I love your Blogggg* It's very interesting!!!!!!!! “Accommodating people requires you to open your heart to accept the person, not only your mind. Only when you are able to open your heart will you be able to understand each other.” I like this conclusion.Dougy~~

It’s true~
It’s very hard to accommodate and understand if that person doesnt want to open his/her
heart to you,too. :cry:
I think both of them need to understand each other~~~
It takes two to make a quarrel~~I guess that’s how you traslate chinese…to English… hahahaha~~~
Yeh!! Dougy~~ I love your Blogggg* It’s very interesting!!!!!!!!

]]> By: DougyMak http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1414 DougyMak Mon, 13 Apr 2009 05:46:47 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1414 Interesting piece of thought there, I liked it. It helped me widen my mind a bit more. Thanks! Interesting piece of thought there, I liked it. It helped me widen my mind a bit more. Thanks!

]]> By: steph http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1413 steph Mon, 13 Apr 2009 05:41:47 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1413 it's true that a lot of people say that they understand you and that there is a difference between actually understanding and just saying it, even though they really may not understand you or your words at all. it can seem like a bad thing or habit actually if you see it flat out on the surface only. but saying that they understand you when you ask for advice, it is a way of accommodation because sometimes people vent and explain their complicated, messy thoughts just for the plain act of receiving a response and being able to have someone that will actualy just listen to waht you have to say, regardless if they don't understand you fully or the way you would want them too. sometimes people just want to say whatever is on their mind, without getting any critical feedback. sometimes people jsut want to talk and have someone listen. so for someone to say they understand you, it is a bland phrase and typical response, but i think it is a way of accommodating your friend if that person is trying to be helpful and "being there" for you. cause who really knows whats going on in someone's head right? just a thought :) here is your comment doug! it’s true that a lot of people say that they understand you and that there is a difference between actually understanding and just saying it, even though they really may not understand you or your words at all. it can seem like a bad thing or habit actually if you see it flat out on the surface only. but saying that they understand you when you ask for advice, it is a way of accommodation because sometimes people vent and explain their complicated, messy thoughts just for the plain act of receiving a response and being able to have someone that will actualy just listen to waht you have to say, regardless if they don’t understand you fully or the way you would want them too. sometimes people just want to say whatever is on their mind, without getting any critical feedback. sometimes people jsut want to talk and have someone listen. so for someone to say they understand you, it is a bland phrase and typical response, but i think it is a way of accommodating your friend if that person is trying to be helpful and “being there” for you. cause who really knows whats going on in someone’s head right? just a thought :) here is your comment doug!

]]> By: queebi http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1408 queebi Mon, 13 Apr 2009 03:58:31 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1408 very wise and deep. nice. very wise and deep. nice.

]]> By: DougyMak http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1388 DougyMak Sat, 11 Apr 2009 19:03:52 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1388 @Pika It's definitely hard. Sometimes, time is all you need. @Pika

It’s definitely hard. Sometimes, time is all you need.

]]> By: pika http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1387 pika Sat, 11 Apr 2009 18:02:14 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1387 dougy, i know that what you are saying is right, but its hard to accept the fact when it comes to your own situation. i know whats right, i know what im supposed to do, but...its so hard, you know, emotion always gets in the way.... doshiyo, kurushii dougy, i know that what you are saying is right, but its hard to accept the fact when it comes to your own situation. i know whats right, i know what im supposed to do, but…its so hard, you know, emotion always gets in the way….
doshiyo, kurushii

]]> By: DougyMak http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1378 DougyMak Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:59:30 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1378 @Alexis: Very true. Whether you open up or not, you can ultimately get hurt. If you don't open up, you risk the chance of your relationship not working, thus getting hurt. If you do open up, you risk the chance of getting hurt as well because of what.. many possible reasons. It's like a catch 22. @Alexis:

Very true. Whether you open up or not, you can ultimately get hurt. If you don’t open up, you risk the chance of your relationship not working, thus getting hurt. If you do open up, you risk the chance of getting hurt as well because of what.. many possible reasons. It’s like a catch 22.

]]> By: Alexis http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1377 Alexis Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:45:25 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1377 Dang... i totally agree with this post... every person IS unique in their own way and people do have to accomodate... from the people that i know back in jersey, reading this post, two people meet half-way... i personally, feel in accomodation, you sacrifice something and BOTH should sacrifice, if it's just one person actually sacrificing something, if one put's in their part while the other one doesn't do the same the relationship be it friendship, love, etc., won't work out... i happen to know that through experience, but then again, i think a lot of people have experienced that once before. i love readin' your blogs doug, these posts actually make me stop and think, and that's always a good thing. To actually understand someone, you have to open yourself up as would the other one in order for anything to work out... some people do open up, while the other doesn't... and if they don't the one who opens up gets hurt... trust me, i know... for a relationship of any sort to work out BOTH have to let their walls down and open up otherwise how will anything work out? But also sometimes, it's difficult to open up due to the fear of gettin' hurt... but that's a risk one has to take if a relationship to work out is what a person wants. openin up to a person is a difficult thing to do, but if both open up and both accomodate to each other then a relationship could work out long as they remain open with each other, not one is more open than the other... both have to put in their part. Dang… i totally agree with this post… every person IS unique in their own way and people do have to accomodate… from the people that i know back in jersey, reading this post, two people meet half-way… i personally, feel in accomodation, you sacrifice something and BOTH should sacrifice, if it’s just one person actually sacrificing something, if one put’s in their part while the other one doesn’t do the same the relationship be it friendship, love, etc., won’t work out… i happen to know that through experience, but then again, i think a lot of people have experienced that once before. i love readin’ your blogs doug, these posts actually make me stop and think, and that’s always a good thing. To actually understand someone, you have to open yourself up as would the other one in order for anything to work out… some people do open up, while the other doesn’t… and if they don’t the one who opens up gets hurt… trust me, i know… for a relationship of any sort to work out BOTH have to let their walls down and open up otherwise how will anything work out? But also sometimes, it’s difficult to open up due to the fear of gettin’ hurt… but that’s a risk one has to take if a relationship to work out is what a person wants. openin up to a person is a difficult thing to do, but if both open up and both accomodate to each other then a relationship could work out long as they remain open with each other, not one is more open than the other… both have to put in their part.

]]> By: DougyMak http://dougymak.com/how-two-different-people/comment-page-1/#comment-1375 DougyMak Sat, 11 Apr 2009 07:06:59 +0000 http://dougymak.com/?p=665#comment-1375 Well, it's not really about what attracts. It's more about how accommodating works in a relationship of any kind. When you don't argue with them, that's basically accommodating your friend, right? However, when you take the time to argue and prove them wrong then they are ultimately understanding you which means they've opened not only their mind, but their <3. Well, it’s not really about what attracts. It’s more about how accommodating works in a relationship of any kind. When you don’t argue with them, that’s basically accommodating your friend, right? However, when you take the time to argue and prove them wrong then they are ultimately understanding you which means they’ve opened not only their mind, but their <3.

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