Healthy Arguments
An argument is a conflict of values, ideas, or whatever; It is an essential element for any relationship, especially a relationship with your lover. It is a common belief that arguments are stupid, useless, waste of time, nonsense, or whatever. It is also common for people to think an argument consists of yelling, possibly beating, frustration, anger, and all these negative feelings. There are such arguments which reflects how stubborn people could be when it resorts to that level due to both parties refuses to give in. There are such arguments, and it shows how stubborn people can be when it results to those things because both parties refuses to give in. But, it is not about giving in and “winning” the argument or being right. It is about having both sides explain their points and then trying to understand each other. Both parties need to participate and meet each other halfway in order for good things to happen. “It takes two to tango..” So… the truth is, they create a healthier relationship. Not only do they help you feel better by releasing what’s bottled up inside, but they help two people understand each other. By understanding each other better, it helps two people grow closer and become more intimate. So the next time… are you ready? Let your partner say what they have to say; Pay full attention to just listen before your turn and then share your feelings and thoughts; And the two of you will become closer.
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“Not only do they help you feel better by releasing what’s bottled up inside”
whats bottled up insidde???? O.o HAHAHA sorry had to do it <3
tell it how it is homeboy!
Yep, I agree. Because when you argue, you’re being real. That’s why it brings both closer. Although it only works if both of them are willing to meet the other halfway and try to work things out. =)
Thanks for the comments guys!
you repeated one sentence twice. I agree to this, but too many arguments can lead to something other than intimacy. sometimes it can push others away for whatever reason you’re arguing.
hey! i’m not a guy!
@lamweena
True that, but I feel that if more and more arguments spark, it just means something was not solved during the first argument, so it comes up again and again.