Blinded by Love
Being blind is when you are unable to see. Unable to see what is in front of you, or unable to see what is truely happening. What blinds people from such things? Of the many, love is one of them. Love is such a strong emotion, and it plays such a huge role in everyone’s life. When one is deeply in love, it is easy for them to fall into a dark well, where they cannot see what is truely going on. When one is in that dark well, it’s easy to be manipulated without oneself knowing.
When you’re in a well, it’s no surprise that you want to get out. You will take any help offered in order to get out of that well. Similar to Love, when you’re in love, your only goal is to have your partner love you back. Many people fall into this trap: because you want them to love you back, you would want to be the person that they want you to be and you would do whatever it takes to be that person. You want to be their dream partner, so in order to obtain that goal, you do whatever your partner asks of you. In other words, you are being manipulated. It is very common for this to happen, because you are so caught up with being the person of his/her dreams, you do not realize how you are being manipulated, because the only thing you want is his/her love; You are blinded by your want of his/her love, and you do not realize what is logically going on.
For the people who has been through that situation, you should know the pain that lies ahead in this situation. For the people who are currently going through, one day you will realize how unhappy you are because you are so busy trying to be the partner of his/her dreams and that you do not have time to be yourself. For this reason, you should be nothing else, but yourself.
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Wow.. it’s sorta sad because one is soooooo sucked into making one’s partner happy that he or she may not even realize that they’re not happy themselves.. AIYAHHH and you know what else? when they’re not “blind” anymore, that’s when they realize that all the effort wasn’t even worth it to begin with!
That’s very true. Even if it may not feel like it was worth it… Stay positive and believe that it was because you did something good for someone. And… that’s what matters the most.
when you love someone.. your emotion is controling you, so you cannot think anymore~~That’s very true~~~
Love is blind.. and also make people..kind of
“stupid”.. i guess..
remember dougy~~ when i talk to you about my bf.. same problem occurs…again and again.. i still fall to
the same trap*because i am blind.. i didnt know it’s the same trap…haha…and i spent all my time to solve the problem…not doing anything else…
after talking to you, i understood that..
love is like a game, standers-by see more than gamesters.
I think…. the love i expect is inside the trap.. so i jumped again to the trap… to find my love… the love i wanted…once again..nothing was inside the trap…. yeh.. after 10000000 times… i understand i was stupid… i need to move on….
haha…but no matter what.. people learned a lot of things from love~~ you gain ur experience.. next.. u wont fall that easily~~ i guess~~~~
I feel like ..sometimes.. u think that person doesnt love you.. because he/she didnt show “love” the way u wanted.. but.. actually he or she loves you.. so much….yeh…
i guess…~~~ I like this topic.. i can talk to you 3 days without stopping hahaha~~~~
@Eri*
Sometimes we need to stop and think about the things your partner does for you. Just because he doesn’t say it, doesn’t mean he does not love you. Everyone shows it in their own way, it’s up to you whether or not you can identify it and then appreciate it.